I am the girl with the 5 o'clock shadow and the moustache that boys were jealous of.

I am finally getting laser hair removal done on it. Underarms, bikini line and moustache. Just enough bikini line so I don't have a hairy (read: pubey) stomach or thighs, not the whole lot. Legs I can just epilate still. Wish I'd thought of this years ago and saved all that money on waxing: I must have spent enough on waxing to have paid for a third of the course! It's really quite cheap, I was expecting thousands and thousands and not at all.

Should I have a daughter who wants to remove the man-hair, I will find the money for waxing for her. And for her 18th, get her laser hair removal. This level of hair is not funny.

As for bras, either when she needs one or when all her mates are wearing one and she needs one socially. I still don't need a bra at all but believe me I wear one - with lots of padding! I like looking like I have a woman's body. Last time I went braless I also had rather short hair and was in trousers. I was asked if I was a boy or a girl by one young child (I also have a deep voice and the above-mentioned moustache). Never again.

As for boy/girl toys, DS will use a play kitchen as well as the real one. But prefers the toy trains unless all the other children are with the kitchen and he wants to play in a group. We have 99% "boy" toys because that's what DS picks and wants to play with. OK so he likes playing change the shoes and bags on the Barbies - but gets bored of that very quickly. Cars, on the other hand, hours of fun. Just one train and he's happy for days.