Ryn - I think that is part of the problem that we don't understand - we have those occasional thoughts about men, whereas men are constantly thinking about sex and checking out women!! It's in their wiring! Of course, it is important that we are not turning our young girls into eye candy for them but I think you find most men with any values whatsoever will turn a blind eye when they know a girl is to young to be oogling...

Did you guys know that Australia has the highest rate of convicted child sex offenders in Thailand (and probably asia in general?) That is disgusting!!! And obviously there needs to be more education to men to stop this kind of behaviour.

I also believe (not that I condone) that even if a young girl is wearing inappropriate clothing and sexualising herself doesn't mean that is an invitation to anyone!!!!!