What would you do? I need some ideas...

[kirsty_lee]

Oh wow! What a sad situation. My heart hurt for your little boy reading your post Inanna. Probably not much point to me posting now lol cause you already decided you were gonna leave it but it seems like you had some good advice here anyway so just some from me. And hopefully things get a bit easier.

[Trillian]

That's fair enough Inanna, it was a tough decision to make

[Smoke Jaguar]

I take too long to compose, clearly!
I'll ETA: when you're ready to think about 'what to do'

[BekZ]

I can see how your heart strings have been pulled Inanna. I would go straight to the source. Call these friends and explain the situation. Your ex may have told them that your DS doesn't visit and they may assume that the girls with eat all the lollies before they go home.