Hey Maruschke, that is a really interesting perspective, one I had never even considered before. And yes you are right, I do judge people, all the time. I almost always keep my judgements to myself or try very hard to find a diplomatic way of approaching things, but this is honestly not what this thread is about.

I just see so many people saying, “you’ve judged me” when really all they are doing is making an honest observation, there’s no “value” in their comments at all. And all the threads about what strangers say and do to people, I can’t believe some of the absolutely awful things some of you have been through. Seriously, why don’t those sort of pope pick on me? Exactly like Misty, I think, I can take it, hell I’m up for it!!!