I think it's very easy to hate the community if you are hurting, as the community is a mirror to yourself. And often if you're hurting, you lash out, and hate what you've done. And hate those who've witnessed it.
I wasn't a popular kid in school. I am used to being on my own. And like Junglemum my humour is mostly one-liners and sarcasm - which can work well when you're seeing someone's face mid-delivery.
Glamourcide - yes, that is what I was trying to get at.
I've learned for me if I am reacting badly it's stirred up something inside me that needs to be looked at. I personally would like to thinkt hat that is what BB does. It makes us think. Stirs up some of our stuff so we can see it more clearly. It's a mirror.
"When we see men of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves."
I really didn't explain myself very well did I? I find it hard to get thoughts into words sometimes . If I have been hurt by someone within a community I don't blame the community, it was that one person whereas a community is made of many people. Sometimes though people within a community can spoil that community and that may be the case when people tend to blame the community and not the person. Geez I don't know if this has made any more sense than my previous post. Ok I think I need the vodka.
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. If I have been hurt by someone within a community I don't blame the community, it was that one person whereas a community is made of many people. Sometimes though people within a community can spoil that community and that may be the case when people tend to blame the community and not the person. Geez I don't know if this has made any more sense than my previous post. Ok I think I need the vodka.
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