Thanks for this Bath. And yes, that conversation has made me think too . I would have loved to continue it, but it wasn't really the place, was it? And further to that point........just because someone (like me) had alot of info in their sig doesn't mean you can presume to know everything about that person and their parenting either. I mean yeah, from my sig you can tell that I've had miscarriages, and that I've breastfed my child to toddlerhood. But really, that doesn't tell anyone anything about how I coped with those miscarriages, why they happened etc. Or anything about my breastfeeding journey, other than that it was 'extended'. Does that make sense? I'm sure most people don't see it that simply, but TBH I kind of did for awhile there. Somebody's sig is such a tiny representation of them, and it might not even be that accurate. But it took me awhile to see that.

And as for the original topic, I am sure I have been guilty of this many times. I try very hard these days to be less judgemental, in general. I find it easier to be less judgemental since becoming a parent, although I do hear where Ryn is coming from. Sometimes I struggle with that. But then I try to remember the keyhole thing. You really never know why somebody does something the way they do. But like I said, it is still something I struggle with. We all have different priorities, and I have learn to accept and appreciate that. After all, I certainly feel that I'm doing the right thing for my son almost all of the time, but there are some out there who believe I suck as a parent .