I've experienced this. The only constant in life is change. Sometimes it feels good, sometimes it hurts. But it's almost always for the best.

Eventually I came to the conclusion that if someone would rather spend time with someone other than me, then I have two choices. Accept it, and put my efforts into something more worthwhile.... like someone who wants to spend time with me. Or feel bitter. Sometimes I choose both. Bitter first, then acceptance. It never feels good to realise that I'm not valued by someone. But of course if they don't value me, then why should I care? I may not have many friends, but the ones I do have are absolutely golden.

That's not to say that if someone doesn't value me that they're a piece of trash. It just means that I have no purpose for them, and vice versa. I try not to take it personally. I'm comfortable with who I am and I know my strengths and weaknesses. Just because one person doesn't like/love me, it doesn't mean I'm not loveable. There is always someone there to take their place.

More often than not these days, I can spot a kindred spirit a mile off. And when I do, long and fruitful friendships are forged. Try not to focus too much on the loss of what was. These people have served their purpose and it's time to move on. It's ok to mourn, but be sure to keep your eyes peeled for your kindred spirits.

Ok I'm done ranting LOL