thread: Are you possessive?

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    May 2010
    victoria
    436

    I feel the same sometimes. An old primary school friend who I still talk to regularly has become close friends with a girl who was in our year at high-school but we never spoke to. My friend makes a point to visit her everytime she is down this way, but never does so for me (I live in a town she has to go through, and will stop in to see her sister. I'm only like 5-10mins from her sisters house). It hurts a little, and I admit I'm a little jealous. I've tried to "re-kindle" the friendship to bring us closer again, but I guess she just doesnt value the friendship to the same level I do. So when I read about their catch-ups on facebook (lol) I feel like "why cant that be me too?" as we all have children around the same age.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    2,075

    I think it's always hard when you realise you value the friendship more than the other person.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    summer street
    2,708

    Yes...that's what it is, isn't it? I think I need to grieve it's loss then...

    Thanks everyone