It's very normal to be scared Nic...the lap was my first ever operation (I was 28) and I was $h!t scared! However, I was so relieved after it was done to find out the reason for all my period problems, still devastated that I had endo though. Having my appendix out at 18 weeks pregnant was even scarier!

Hopefully, this IVF cycle is the one for you and you won't need the surgery