Hello and welcome to Belly Belly!!

I was in a very similar position to you prior to having Ryley my DS. I had gained 30 kgs in total and i developed an eating disorder which made me not only lose weight but get sick. Then I realised that maybe I am supposed to just be big and started loving myself even though I have PCOS. All the docs that i had seen told me not to worry i would never fall preg because of pcos and my weight. So until my chiropractor sent me to my current doctor i was told there was no chance. I lost 5 kilos through lots of hard work and went on metformin and i fell preg.
But besides the PCOS stuff things i did to help fall preg was- I got a bit tipsy (okay a lot tipsy) which helped me relax and my body to relax- also after the deed was done I put my legs up in the air for about literally five minutes. I dont know if either of there helpes but hey I have a beautiful son now

I wish you all the best of luck and if you have any more questions or feel like it is too much please email me or chat on here.

Take Care