I dont think if someone is going to go through gender selection that they would make that decision lightly at all, I would think if a family is willing to spend that amount of money, time and emotion on something it would be an extremely hard decision to make. You cant judge people on their choices, you can listen to all sides and make decisions that are right for you. I have 3 amazing beautiful little men who are healthy and happy. To me that is the most important thing in the world, I would never change my boys for even 1 girl, its not about that its the desire to experience all aspects of motherhood and to ME that is also being a mother to a little girl.
Mummynaomi, you took this out of context, I totally believe in IVF I think its an amazing thing, but when poeple talk about what god delt you then isnt it the same thing. i get 4 boys and some poeple dont have children. I wasnt the one who brought up god and a higher universe. I also completly understand there are no garentees in it, IF my family was to go down this path we would do it knowing all the facts. I understand the emotional rollercoaster with IVF I have had a couple of very close friends go through this
Last edited by foreva*your*mummy; June 6th, 2012 at 10:13 PM.
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