I don't know how I missed this forum before...

I am a single mum. I have been single since before I found out I was pregnant. My son is nearly 3 1/2 now and we have had our ups and downs. He has regular contact with his father, but I can't say wheather this is a good thing or not. It is a huge disturbance in our lives, but we deal with it as best we can.

I am studying to be a professional Counsellor, whilst also working part time to support us. I love my job and my study, but I often miss spending time with my 'baby'. That said, sometimes, like lovebourbon, I wish that I could leave it all for a while and do what I want. I don't think it is selfish to feel like this. I know a lot of single (and some married) mothers feel like this. It is a demanding job and we all deserve to feel a bit selfish and make ourselves feel special and human - and not always a mother. This is why I returned to work - so i could be a grown-up and been known for myself not for my child.

It takes a lot of work to do this on your own. Don't feel bad about wanting to take time for yourself.