I'm so sorry for your loss.

My Grandfather, my husbands grandmother and a close friends Mother have all passed away in the past 2 years. I have taken all 3 of my children to their funerals - and they have coped fine. The services were actually lovely - as people spoke lovingly and with humour about the lives they had lived. They have never been to a burial though - I think that would be too much for them to deal with at this young age.