No I agree katanya, instinctive parenting is definately a plus. I was so amazed when the midwives put Matilda in bed with me after DH got to cuddle while they cleaned me up post caesar and she didn't leave until the morning! She never slept outside our bed for weeks or without me. I loved it for the most part, sometimes I would get anxious with her so close all the time, but I loved it. Then when she refused to do it anymore I was heartbroken...LOL...even now we still try every other day or so to bring her into our bed, but for now we have morning cuddles where when she wakes up one of us goes to get her & brings her into our bed for a big family cuddle...ahhhh....(too bad she spends most of the time crawling over daddy's head but thats okay too...LMAO!)