Its hard that when you're in a long term relationship and your partner doesn't want to do anything. I felt just like your husband, Jess! Until we sat down and really talked, I realised there were more problems and just ended it. But for you, he just wants to show you how much he loves you, and this is how men (except my XP) show love. Perhaps telling him that you do enjoy it, just need to relax into or or at times you just are really tired or sore. Pregnancy knocks mum around heaps! He loves you so much sweetie, he'll understand. Perhaps he'll tell you what you could do for him if you're not completely in the mood.

And well said Dr Hoobley!