(Young) children don't cost that much that is true, but I am certainly not looking forward to clothing 3 teenagers in 10 years, especially when I wont be back in the work force as such, and having 3 growing teenage boys eat me out of house and home every week

An extra child here would mean a bigger house, bigger car etc something that we can't do on 1 wage. As it is, we would love a bigger car ready to transport around 3 boys to various sports etc but we simply can't afford that and our mortgage.

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