I think it is a great idea. I think when it comes the parenting we see what we had as kids and we see bad stuff and "normal" stuff, the bad stuff is those things we say we will NEVER do and the "normal" stuff is the stuff we go to as our default....sometimes thats where parenting conflict comes up when parents have a different "normal default" to our partners. Sometimes when we think these things through its not that we actually believe what we believe its just we took it as the way it has to be iykwim???