Natalie & Caro my dad does love it here and he liked the idea of spending 6 months here and 6 months in the UK but my step mum is the problem as she still works and would only spend 4wks of the year here so i don't think dad would do it and i know she wouldn't move here full time as it means leaving her kids and the other grandchildren behind.

I guess i am just still feeling the pain of lossing him and that it should have been his birthday in 9 days time.