DP only gets christmas day off (he's a chef also lol, and this is the first place he has worked that closes on christmas day! he's boss says thats family time, awesome guy!), so we are spending our first christmas as a family at home & making everyone come to us lol. Our parents are only an hour away though, and its easier for them to come to us than us drag DS around to two places in one day. (he is the only grandchild on both sides). So my mum for lunch, IL's & DP's grandparents for dinner. Boxing day my side of the family has a big get together so DS & I will be going to that as well.
Its going to be a bit costly & have us running around cooking for two big meals, but I am actually excited for it. We get great food (thanks DP!), great company & DS gets to stay at home where he is familiar & have his naps in his own bed.

Oh yeah, forgot about my dad & his partner. They suck and are spending christmas with her oldest DD as she said she wants christmas at their house ... in QLD. And as my dad puts them before his other 3 children (my siblings & I), and now his grandson , we get pushed to the side. I am mighty p'o to say the least that he will miss DS's first christmas. Told him that too, and that he had better be around for his 1st birthday. But I digress lol. We will have a rocking christmas day and he will miss out on our awesome fun!