have you tried making a rewards chart for his good behaviour? Like every star he gets is 10c and if hes bad, he loses 5 or something?

AS for the toilet paper balls... best way to stop that, get rid of the toilet paper. Tell him you have to use washers or something until he is able to stop sticking the toilet paper on the roof. When you DD needs to go.. if she is going yet.. just let her take some with her?

Instead of "asking "him to do something.. mayb do a chores chart? tie that in with the rewards chart. You dont have to have the reward as money.. it can be anything..

if he slams his door.. easy fixed, take his door away. Its not to be slammed and (according to my mum) this is the only thing that stopped us. He will not like having no privacy.


DD needs me..

HTH