We have chosen my best friend to be the kids guardian if something was to happen to us.

It was simple chosing her. We have been bestfriends since we were 11. I have known her family for that long as well. DP has known her as long as hes known me and they get along great he classes her as one of his closest friends and vice versa. She absolutely adores DD which the feeling is mutual. She comes from a very wonderful loving family who also adore DD.

We share the same beliefs and values and she respects our parenting style. She also would make sure our familes see the kids regularly.

I plan on having a naming day at the end of the year and thats when we will nominate her then. She right now has no idea but we have talked about.