Wea re in the beginnings of getting our wills done. We have all our insurances done, written everything done and organised it but we just cannot decide/agree on guardians.
MIL is going to have caring responsibilities for FIL soon,
My parents are an option but they are getting older,
My two siblings are both Navy families so they move around every few years so not if that is the life we want for our kids,
DH's sister is single, no kids, lives in Melbourne and has never lived with anyone or raised kids so not sure about her,
DH's sister has three of her own so asking someone to take our three as well, making a family of 6 is a huge huge ask.
We have no friends close enough to consider as guardians.
We are so lost on who to pick.
Good luck with such a hard decision.