XDH and I decided we would have 4, but then I miscarried #4. Things went bad and it all ended in divorce. I was content with 3. I then met my DF and knew I'd never have anymore kids due to male infertility. That obviously isn't the case as we are expecting our first, even if it's not bio his. He has said there's a want for more, but I'm feeling good with the idea of my 4th being my last baby