Hey Misty,

Yeah DF s much the same, once we talk about it 'after the fact' he comes around and agree's. But its his initial reaction then punishment, which means in my eyes the damage has been done. I am seeing almost a wedge come between them as he can be SO very hard on her and it breaks my heart.

I just wish it didnt have to come the point where we have to talk about it after, and i bring him around to seeing i guess my way. It has lead/ me to now, that i am seond guessing if i am too light or so on...

Thanks for your reply...