what is it with men who wont stand up to their mums??

i would just say to her that you appreciate that she's trying to help, but you are following dr's instructions on how to feed olive and they need to be stuck to. maybe mention that if she can't do that, you'll have to find someone to look after her who will.

good luck!
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My DF takes his mothers side too and i believe shes had her babies and she raised them how she wanted to this is your baby and you will feed her what you want to. DH needs to help you. Goodluck