I could have written your exact same post about Dp's mum!

Oh it drives me nuts!

I had and still have the exact same feelings as you do hun and I am also really jealous of DD spending anytime with her as I want it to be my mum who lives in Qld. I think it is quite normal to feel this way.

You have been given some really good advice from others. I am even going to take some of it on board as how to deal with mine.