Motherless Mothers

[LimeSlice]

TC xxx Happy birthday to your mum.

[~Gee_Whizzy~]

Just feeling a bit blah today missing Mum and feeling sorry for myself. You'd think after 23yrs i'd be used to it...

[Tuesday's Child]

negs. Unfortunately, I don't think there's any getting used to it

[~Gee_Whizzy~]

Thanks for the hugs TC - much needed today - and yes, you're right, you don't ever really get used to it....you just learn to function on a different level

Did have a massage today which helped me feel better

[Beautiful Disaster]

Oh negs huge hugs from me too I feel like that most days at the moment

sorry for any mistakes. still getting used to this Galaxy

[~Gee_Whizzy~]

thanks BD

[LimeSlice]

Much love to you Negs xx

[~Gee_Whizzy~]

just saw this now...thanks for the hugs LS

[Beautiful Disaster]

So apparently we are ment to 'get over' grief asap as its annoying. I'm not feeling ok at the moment. I feel crap that I can't even voice how I feel obviously MY fb cause 'friends' are sick of my whinging statues and vaugeness WTF

Sorry just needed to vent to people that understand

sorry for any mistakes. still getting used to this Galaxy

[~Gee_Whizzy~]

Huggles K it's easy for ppl to say 'get over it' when they haven't lost anyone close to them. you can grieve for as long as it takes you not what others think is an acceptable amount time

[Tuesday's Child]

Huggles K it's easy for ppl to say 'get over it' when they haven't lost anyone close to them. you can grieve for as long as it takes you not what others think is an acceptable amount time

^^ wss

*hugs* hun. There's no getting over it. My grandma sometimes still tears up when she talks about her mum. There is moving on eventually in that you find a new kind of normal. It does take time (cliche but true). It's only been a few months so allow yourself to grieve as you need to.

[Crowe]

Beautiful disaster if so called 'friends' are sick of reading about it on fb tell them not to read it!!! Simple as that, if they cannot empathize with you then they are not real friends. Hugs to you and you take as long as you need!

[Beautiful Disaster]

6 months on and I thought I was doing ok. Today I know I'm not I miss her so much. I would give anything to have her back.

[Khaleesi]

It will be 2yrs in Nov for me & i still struggle some days
It does get easier & those days will becomes less frequent

[ll80]

Coming up to 14 years for me and I still have those days. You do learn to carry on better but it's always there.

Take them as they come. Sometimes I find looking at photos and things help but other times it's too raw for me to do so.

[~Gee_Whizzy~]

6 months on and I thought I was doing ok. Today I know I'm not I miss her so much. I would give anything to have her back.

big hugs BD 6 months is still very fresh as others have said it does get easier but it never goes away Feb next year will be 24 years for me and yet it still feels like yesterday that she was taken you just learn to live a different kind of 'normal'

[Tuesday's Child]

Big big BD

[Beautiful Disaster]

Today she would have been just 50.

how do I get though this? I feel like I've been hit by a bus after my meltdown last night.

do you all find it gets harder at this time of year no matter how long it's been?

THANK YOU all for the loving support you have all offered. xxx

love to u all xxx