My DS1 is 4 turning 5 in Jan. He just doesn't listen to anyone. He thinks he can do whatever he wants, whenever.
He's lost almost all the things he likes to do, aka watch dvds for example.
We're tried a points system thing lately, where he has to be good and listen to get points to be able to go with my sister to her christmas party which is at a water park type place. That lasted all of a few days and he'd get points then lose twice as many due to his behaviour and not listening.

I don't know what to do anymore.
I at least thought he'd listen to the teachers at Preschool, which is he goes to one day a week, but today I found out he hasn't been.
She also told me that he's been running off while they're not looking or something like that.

I know I'm not the only one to have troubles like this so why do I feel like my child is the only one that does all this?
When we're out I see little boys and girls with their parents/guardians doing as they're told, but my boy won't...
There have been glimpses of this good boy shining through once or twice in the past month, so it's not all bad.

Any ideas? suggestions?
Does/has this happened with your children?

I'm sorry if this isn't the right place to post. I wasn't exactly sure where I should post it.
Thanks for reading and/or replying. It means alot.
xx