II80 - Thanks for the idea of the one and one time. I think I'm going to try and have more one and one time with him. Good luck with the rest of your pg!!

Jess - OMG! Our DS's sound exactly the same! My dad used to say what your MIL used say too. LOL. His opinion changed once he opened his eyes more and watched.

It's really nice to know that I'm not the only one out there at their wits end.
Thank you so much for replying.