Mayaness - oh yeah, its confirmed! I opened the laptop to log into my FB after coming home from the gym the other night and DH's FB was open - the list of PM's were open, and you know how you can read one or two lines in the preview...? Welllllll, it prompted me to open the PM (yes, I know its wrong and I invaded his privacy etc. Trust me, I'm paying for it now!).

The only thing which 'I think' stopped the possibility of anything occurring between them is distance - she lives a good 1 - 1.5 hrs away. There was conversation of her suggesting he go down to visit her and they'd go to the beach - to 'play'...!

I've spoken to DH about it a bit. He hasn't tried to justify it and isn't playing it down (which is a smart move on his part, if he down played it I think I'd be even more furious). He said he knew it was stupid and wrong, yet he continued to do it...! (His words). He claims to not have feelings for her - and for some strange reason I believe him..Dunno why, just a gut feeling I have.