I have a problem with my mother in law wanting to see my 15 month old daughter too much, sometimes she sees us up to 3 times a week and just pops over anytime she wants. I'm getting a bit annoyed because I'm basically ignored the whole time, as MIL only has eyes for her granddaughter. MIL keeps pushing the subject of letting my daughter sleep over, but I don't see any need for that, as she's only 15mths and theres plenty of years ahead for all that. But she can't understand that, no matter how many times I tell her I'm not yet comfortable with sleeping over. MIL's really eager to have time alone with her, and constantly tells my husband and I we need to let her be with them alone more often, even though she sees her granddaughter quite a lot anyway. MIL takes over my daughter when we are together, and just feeds her and does whatever she likes with her without consulting me. Am I being just a jealous daughter in law? I'm starting to resent seeing her now,which is sad because we got along so well until my daughter was born... I feel really nasty writing this, but its always on my mind, I just don't want to see her as often as we do, I want family time some weekends, which we never get. My husband doesnt see a problem with his mother, so its something I can't bring up with him. Should I say something to her? Anyone else had any similar smothering MIL problems?