Yes,this is the first grandchild. And MIL always wanted a daughter (she got two sons), so now she kind of has one, so I guess I just have to be more understanding! I just want time alone on weekends occasionally. My daughter adores her grandma so I would never try to keep them away from each other! I guess I'm just a bit jealous, as my own mother lives 2 hrs away so I don't get to see her as often as I'd like. I found that MIL gave me unwanted advice at the start as well, like assuming my daughter was lactose intolerant therefore I should take her off breastfeeding and put her on formula, whereas my own mother was extremely encouraging and instead of coming over and just being baby focused (like MIL), she actually helped me with things that I really needed, like cleaning and talking to me!