KAM I don't know if this helps but I've not long had dd3 (she's 3months old). She was planned to be our last baby, but for the first couple of weeks after she arrived I found myself thinking: she can't be our last. She's so cute, how can it be there'll be no more? I have also spent 6 years in the pregnancy stage of life including a couple of miscarriages and some medical issues where for a while I wondered if dd1 was going to be an only child. We were very lucky and managed to have dd2 and then dd3. Now, a couple more months down the track from dd3's birth I'm feeling more settled. I remind myself of the anxiety of being pregnant and not knowing if it will work out. I tell myself I have to finish with this stage of life some time and now is a good time for us for a number of reasons. I'm trying to focus on the things I'll get to enjoy with my dd's as they get past the baby stage. All the best to you. It is a hard change to go from years of 'trying' to being 'done'.