Friends with 2 or more kids have said 'Yeah, wait unitl the next one is here and see what you think' but I highly doubt this next child will change my mind about having a third. I never thought having just one baby would be as challenging and time consuming as it is but it certainly didn't stop me for a minute from wanting another one. I'm pooping my pants about having another baby but I know I've survived 22 months with DD, I'm sure I'll adjust and cope all over again. And that's my theory for number three - I'll cope, we'll cope. Sink or swim - we'll swim
Taurean, I was scared of having two as well but once I had them, I was really okay. I think my hardest transition was none to one. By the time I had my second baby, I was doing the baby thing. I was used to the sacrifices needed to make life settled and smooth. I had experience with a baby and surprised myself with how much I just seemed to know how to do when I had felt so hopeless with DD1. The unknown is always scary, but you will cope. You get to the end of your rope and somehow, you just manage to find more rope.

I actually think one of my favourite times with my kids was just after DS1 was born and I had DD1 and DS1 together. I tried to be prepared for having to breastfeed with a toddler around and it worked out okay. You will do fine. I am so excited that you want 3 or 4 kids