oh join the club
my DD will not let me put ehr hair up she likes it out. its all curly.
but washing isnt an issue its not washing it, every bath you have to wash her hair 3 or 4 times lol well she has to lol

but brushing is out of tehg question, dont even try lol
dad said she needs a hair cut or it put up i said ok you try lol he just laughed and said hmmm that sounds familiar apparently i was like that till 3 then everything was so pretty i coudlnt keep things out of my hair