My dh has been clucky for a while now but I havn't been ready, the thing was he wanted to 'try for a boy', I said that if I were to get pregnant, we would try for a baby and be happy if we got a girl, and he would have to be just as happy with that than if we were to have a boy. He has only just come to terms with it and realised it is a baby he wants, not a boy. Gosh, our girl is already into getting muddy and motorbikes at one year old!!