Worried she'll let her CIO

[Heaven]

Yeah I don't want to leave her. She hasn't been left with anyone yet!
Maybe I'll try to time it when she won't need a sleep.
DH doesn't want to leave her either tho so he prob will just stay home.

[boomba]

Hun if your not comfortable about leaving her and worried she wont uplhold your wishes i wouldnt leave her there.
If you dont let her cry an hour is a really long time and i personally would be devestated if that happened to DS.

Talk it over with your dh and decide on what is best for you and your sweet little girl xxxx

[lilima]

If it really doesn't sit well with youto leave her, then don't. Gotta go with your gut instinct.
In saying that, she probably would be fine, expecially if it is during a time that she doesn't need a sleep. Then they can just have a nice cuddle together, or go for a walk or something. have you thought of taking her with you, but taking Grandma aswell? THen Grandma can care for her, but you wil lbe there too

[dust]

just me, but i wouldnt leave any baby/child of mine (regardless of whether its a family member) with someone, if i didn't trust them... id rather play the safe side than be worried constantly the whole time i was away from them.

[Epacris]

Well, if you feel that strongly about it, and you feel you can't ask your Grandmother to look after your DD how you would like her to, then don't do it. More hugs

[Shanti]

I cant' believe your Grandma won't listen to you and would let your DD CIO!! That's so disrespectful to not only your DD but to you and your DH also.
YOUR baby, YOUR rules.
I probably wouldn't leave my DD there if I knew she might do that.
As for screaming/crying in the car for 20mins... I know what you mean... it's awful... my DD did it for 1hr once when she was 6wks i was on my own it was heartbreaking even stopping the car didnt help! but yeah making a baby CIO in their cot on their own is VERY different!!!

[Heaven]

I'm not sure if we're allowed to take her. I'm going to try and see if she'll come with us and just look after her while she waits for us. That would be better!!

[sneakysparkle]

how stressful for you hun..
I hope it all works out for you

[Jakabella]

Can you and DH take her with you??