I tend to agree with a bit of everyones advice.

I tend to hold precious things at ransom too. You made me laugh when i read that.

When we got rid of DS#1's dummy he still had his puppy to comfort him so he actually coped really well without his dummy. Its worth a try - make the most of the opportunity.

Good luck - i am a stubborn person too and i know how hard it can be to back down.
DS does need to learn though !

xxxxxxx