I just took some time to read this thread as it did interest me until it started getting nasty. There definately was no intention to make this a blame game but it has turned into one AGAIN... BB is certainly not the place it used to be, there is little or no respect for people anymore ;-(
All I want to add without being shot down is as long as baby is being fed and looked after then that is all that matters. There is way too much neglect and abandonment in this world so go and focus on fixing that then making women feel attacked and unable to have a healthy discussion.