I haven't got time to post all I wanted atm, and I am one who did bring up the issue as to where this was posted & the comments being posted....just want to say I do not believe anyone pin pointed BF'ers & said do not post.........more so if it's not consturctive, on topic, or supportive to the thread it is posted in (that being FF discussion & support) then perhaps just don't post. We may not always agree but often we should just let some things be.
I agree. I am an active member in a different subforum and I feel the same, if you post in a thread (even if it is really relevant to your own experiences) with support and understanding you will be welcome. But if you come in all guns blazing telling people what they should be doing or how they should be feeling and throwing criticism around the other posters would rather you didn't. I think that is a natural reaction when you have a group of posters with a shared experience and a group of posters without that experience.