Hello and thankyou for the welcome
Congratulations for the weight loss twomums, its not an easy trip
I'm trying to get a grasp on the treatments some of you are experiencing as i'm not up on it, but I think slowly i'll gain more insight. I thought I might throw a topic up in the air, have any of you have sought legal advise about the legal standing your partner has after the child is born, for example, god forbid, something happens to *the birth mother* and she no longer has the capacity to look after the child? Or even guardianship and surnames etc.
Dan and I have spoken at great length about this topic and have researched a little, by the looks of it, Dan doesnt have much in the way of legal standing, which isnt something we like at all

Gosh I hope I havnt opened a sad can of worms, but I wanted to hear some of your ideas/thoughts and so on..

ok cheerio