Gay & Lesbian Pregnancy General Chatter #1

[DrGirl72]

Alicia, my TWW should have been up 6 days ago but in fact AF came 11 days ago. Haven't even logged on to BB since then as was feeling miserable, convinced I am infertile or going through early menopause or something! (I tend the the histrionic side of life at times). After breakfast yeatserday morning with my ,ore grounded DP and our lovely donor they have encouraged me to see that two months of actually trying without a BFP doesn't equate with my being infertile! OUr donor did say someone told him he should be having "sperm food" which is actually some sort of diet to ???encourage lots of healthy sperm. Anyway back to counting the days to trying again...how is everyone else going?

[BonanzaJellybean]

I m not sure what I should do! I'm over due for my period, all my preg tests have been negative to date, my emotions are all over the place....not knowing if I am or Im not is past the 2ww and Dr says Im not pregnant and my period will start again soon!

Well.........I'm still waiting!!!!!! And why do my BB hurt so much and why have I had these cramps since day 16 of my cycle? (after C.D 14) and Why is my older sister having morning sickness when she only gets it when someone in the family is pregnant (and she lives 700km away!)

So do I stop taking my folate and chuck it in!!!!!!!????? Im going nuts on this see-saw, No-maybe-no-maybe-no......AAARRRGGHHH!!!!!!!!!!!or have i just got a big dose of ???????????????

[babysteps]

Bonanza, that sucks I know. My AF was a week late after my first IUI, I think that was due to the luteul support hormones that I was on until I had my negative blood test.

If the doctors have done a blood test and say you're not pregnant, I'd say that they're probably correct.

Although as everyone else says, it's not over until AF rears her head.

*fingers crossed for you*

[BonanzaJellybean]

Oh well, Now what? A.F is on her way! Aint got another $1000 to go back down to my donor, not enough scripts yet to go to Sydney IVF on safety net medicare rebate!

Do I go it alone with the new B/F.......if he knew I was bisexual he'd DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!![and deal with the issue if it turns into one that its not his kid I want! because then that makes him STUCK to me eternally!, at least if its a Donor there is NO ATTATCHMENT 'COMMITMENT' sought!] Apologies if that sounds bad!

I must say all this insemination bizo reminded me of why i don't like sex with blokes even though I am still attracked to them!.....groase! Its the three days after that makes me sick when its all coming back out! Sorry T.M.I!!!!!!!!!! But yeah! YUK!
God should have made us self pollinating/asexual then we wouldn't need to go through so much B.S!