Hi,

I suppose I'll be honest with my post and hope it doesn't come across rude!

Well I can uderstand the decision to because a single parent when you are obviously not in a committed relationship but I think to be in a relationship that isn't committed just is not going to work in going through assisted conception, pregnancy and the decades of parenting to come.

I think how you said my kids will have my last name and her kids will have her last name it says to me that you aren't interested in having a kids "together" I am not exactly sure on how legal rights come into play here...I'm sure Leasha would be able to tell you and she's in qld too. But do you really want to bring a child into the world that if you break up your partner is going to have legal rights to for the next 18years????

I think at this point it is probably questionable how long this relationship will last and if you both even really want to be together? So in my opinion I would definitely be thinking about sorting it out first before having kids together is considered. JMO