lol sunflowa its ok I dont get offended easy, I totally know where you are coming from, The Dr has also made an appointment for him to see a dietician which I am looking forward to going to as well. He also has hereditry (sp?) high cholesterol in his family so I have to be careful with the way I cook his food or what I give him to eat. It will be good to see the dietician to see if I am doing the right thing.

Thanks everyone for your stories, I guess we all hope for that miracle trick that will make things better - I guess it is going to be a time thing. I really appreciate all your replies.