thread: Stress Levels. Why am I not handling things very well anymore?

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  1. #1
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    Apr 2008
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    Unhappy Stress Levels. Why am I not handling things very well anymore?

    Is everything becoming too much?

    I get stressed and snap over the smallest things. Thank goodness DP has been so good about it lately but I have flown off the radar heaps lately, throwing things around, yelling (I even kicked a cupboard on Friday). I have actually felt the need to apologise to him (and have done) numerous times because I have taken it out on him.

    I am so stressed right now after being on hold (from my mobile) to Optus for 67minutes and my heart rate feels through the roof. Then to have a screaming baby (who missed bath time, even though I ran a bath while I was on hold that she was then too tired to get into as I was on the phone for so long.

    I feel I used to handle stress a lot better. I think my dogs are scared of me when I am stressed as they go and hide under the bed.

    I dont want to continue on like this. So what does everyone else do when they are stressed?

    TIA

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    Mar 2006
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    I exercise. Even a short walk is usually enough to destress me. Or I meditate.


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    Exercise is a classic prescription for stress / anxiety.

    Talking therapy in conjunction with.

    Identifying what your stresses are, and looking to reduce them.

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    Sep 2008
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    OMG I could have written your post at times!
    I have to feed miss S but i'll bbl to post. :hugs: xx

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    Apr 2008
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    Thanks girls.

    I should exercise more. It will also help with my weight.

    MG- How do I meditate? I dont know if I have the patience for it LOL! See I am truly hopeless.

    Sunshine- hope you are okay. Sing out if you need any help (like actual help-not the type your MIL offers)

    Sometimes I think maybe work is causing me the most stress. I love my job so much. If we were rich, I would still work but I dont think I am coping with the fact that even though I am working part time and only being paid for part time, I seem to be doing more than what I did working full time (and getting paid half the amount).

    I think the stress builds up and I absolutely run out of patience when I get home. I use it all up at school. The thing is I can be fine and then all of a sudden...BANG...something inside me fires up and I am a nutter!!! Its not PMT either as it seems to be consistent. I had all my bloods done recently and thyroid and all is fine. Maybe I need my head tested.

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    Dec 2005
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    I have been feeling very similar to that lately, do you get anytime to yourself just to wind down, get out in the fresh air?