I try not to judge someone based on weight, mainly for the fact that i am myself overweight and have been obese.
I do however find it hard not to judge some people, those who are extremely overweight, sitting in Macca's with a meal that could feed a small family who say "but i can't help it".

I'm no picture perfect model of what someone should do, eat or say but lately i have realised i am the way i am because of ME, no-one else.
I have to make the effort, i'm not blessed with an amazing metabolism or genes from some size 6 super model but i do have a brain and it's about time i started using it.

FWIW i actually have some friends who would be classed as obese, they are the happiest most amazing outgoing people i have ever met, they never let anyone get them down, they are always dressed impeccably and have the most amazing sense of fashion.... (i wish they would share their secrets)

I think we are bought up in a society where we are actually taught to judge people based on looks and size, were taught about healthy and unhealthy eating and that certain foods are bad for us or we'll get FAT.
DP's cousins little girl is 10, she started telling her mum not to buy her certain foods, she started saying she needed to loose weight and wanted to start walking more, now while it's good she's conscious of whats going into her body this is a girl thats quite tall for her age, very slim and in no way needed to 'tone up' or 'loose weight' - so where does it start and where does it end?

Sorry for my ramble, got a bit OT - i try not to judge people by their weight but i think no matter what we all do it, even if we don't admit to it there is that little voice in our head that for just a second says "oh she's tiny or wow she's big".

FWIW my Name is Leah and i am 93kg+ i am 5'11" and i am obese... judge away