Yeah I can't get over the fact that she thought my child had to fear me. Thats the last thing I want. I would hate it if Matilda was afraid of expressing herself to me, afraid of letting go around me. I want more than anything that Matilda learn about her emotions and the best ways to get them out. We all have tantrums, I had one a few days ago its just learned the most acceptable way of dealing with your emotions and thast a huge lesson I'm still working on myself.