ds sleeps on our bed for his naps. Most times he will only sleep for about 40 minutes alone but if I nap next to him he will sleep for 2-3 hours. I look upon it as a chance to rest! After 11 months of this I have got to the point where i have accepted that i have a bad sleeper and my house will not be perfect nor will i be able to cook lovely food for a few years! DH helps alot as he cannot settle him (no boobs!) so his job is to do the majority of the cooking and cleaning when ds is at his most unsettled with sleep. He has had good patches though so i am able to look positively on prospects of more time for me in the future! Good luck!