You're not a bad mother for suggesting it Tegan, you have your reasons and are perfectly entitled to them. I guess its a decision that you and Jacob have to reach together.

I honestly dont think cleaning it is such a hard thing though, because all they need to do is pull back the foreskin to clean it properly (from about 4 or 5 years of age?), maybe Jacob isn't aware of how simple it still is to clean with a foreskin, because he has been circumsized himself?
But then again I am not a male LOL, so my POV probably isnt worth much either!