I think there is confusion with the name of these forums - we are all loving and caring parents, there is no question, but circumsicion is not generally associated with gentle parenting. You can adapt other gentle techniques from pregnancy to parenthood though, just because you don't do one that goes against the grain, it doesn't exclue you. It doesn't mean you are not a loving and caring parent if you make that choice. These forums are support for a variety of gentle techniques, you don't need to do them all.